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Idk; I think it's easy to get too comfortable in life, especially with computers these days. Nothing comes easier to me than playing video games and surfing the web. When I actually do go out on a date or meet new people, I get nervous and part of me wants to stay home. I just have to tell myself, that unless a freak event occurs, it's not going to kill me. According to Nietzsche:

For believe me: the secret for harvesting from existence the greatest fruitfulness and greatest enjoyment is — to live dangerously.

Of course, you'd "feel fine." That's why it's called a "comfort-zone." It can also be pretty dull there. Having said that, if you're truly at peace with this aspect of your life, then cool.

If being a virgin really bothered you, you would have seen an escort by now. Perhaps most people can't comprehend your current situation, but life isn't a "one-size fits all" thing. I guess I would just accept it and not let it rob you of the other things you enjoy. I doubt there's anything wrong with you, but it's against what media/society tells us is normal, so there's that pressure. Have you thought about seeing a counselor? Have you told your close friends?