jfager16

Hey ! Woman here! I’m one of many ladies in the world that needs a vibrator to orgasm during intercourse. My husband can make me cum with oral, and I love it, but prefer to climax with him inside me as it goes from just clitoral to full body. That being said, you say she has never orgasmed at all? If that’s the case, I would encourage her to play by herself and see what works for her. OR have a sex session dedicated only to her. She may feel pressure to climax and that stops it because a lady’s brain can really fuck up connecting to herself physically.

I’m no expert tho!

Well, there’s only so much you can do! She may have some issues with sex. Not saying anything is wrong with her though! It just sounds like there is a disconnect to the sexual side of herself.

Women are so very mental when it comes to sex and our sexuality in general. Lots of mixed messages during childhood, etc. there could have been an aunt that said something when she was younger and it stuck with her. Who knows!!! I don’t know her life story.

I hope she finds just how beautiful and amazing sec can be though! I have sexual abuse in my past and it took A LONG TIME to learn that sex is actually enjoyable. Like...it didn’t feel good. I couldn’t say aroused and intercourse always ended up painful and counting down until it was over. My husband is the only partner I’ve had that I’ve actually felt intimate with and that I’ve allowed myself to be vulnerable with. It’s completely and truly changed my sexual experience. Once my body and mind connected it became a totally different thing.

I’m saying all this so you know all you can do is encourage her with live, patience and kindness. Women are hard sometimes! ❤️

What's your stance on kids and martial arts? I want to put my daughter in jiu jitsu as soon as she is of the required age. Do you think that instills a sense of confidence and discipline as kids grow up? I want to raise a daughter with self esteem and confidence in herself and respect for her body...and for her to have the ability to defend herself if necessary.

What's are your thoughts?

There’s a lot about living in a heavily religious state that really doesn’t interfere in my day to day. But when big things like this pop up it makes me nervous! So yes, you definitely made me feel better while educating me, so thank you!

Working in the industry, do you get off watching porn in your free time? Or is it totally in-sexy and are you too desensitized to it?