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jfager1668 karma

Hey ! Woman here! I’m one of many ladies in the world that needs a vibrator to orgasm during intercourse. My husband can make me cum with oral, and I love it, but prefer to climax with him inside me as it goes from just clitoral to full body. That being said, you say she has never orgasmed at all? If that’s the case, I would encourage her to play by herself and see what works for her. OR have a sex session dedicated only to her. She may feel pressure to climax and that stops it because a lady’s brain can really fuck up connecting to herself physically.

I’m no expert tho!

jfager1622 karma

Well, there’s only so much you can do! She may have some issues with sex. Not saying anything is wrong with her though! It just sounds like there is a disconnect to the sexual side of herself.

Women are so very mental when it comes to sex and our sexuality in general. Lots of mixed messages during childhood, etc. there could have been an aunt that said something when she was younger and it stuck with her. Who knows!!! I don’t know her life story.

I hope she finds just how beautiful and amazing sec can be though! I have sexual abuse in my past and it took A LONG TIME to learn that sex is actually enjoyable. Like...it didn’t feel good. I couldn’t say aroused and intercourse always ended up painful and counting down until it was over. My husband is the only partner I’ve had that I’ve actually felt intimate with and that I’ve allowed myself to be vulnerable with. It’s completely and truly changed my sexual experience. Once my body and mind connected it became a totally different thing.

I’m saying all this so you know all you can do is encourage her with live, patience and kindness. Women are hard sometimes! ❤️

jfager163 karma

What's your stance on kids and martial arts? I want to put my daughter in jiu jitsu as soon as she is of the required age. Do you think that instills a sense of confidence and discipline as kids grow up? I want to raise a daughter with self esteem and confidence in herself and respect for her body...and for her to have the ability to defend herself if necessary.

What's are your thoughts?

jfager161 karma

I don’t have a lot of knowledge on this topic to be honest. How can people in conservatives states protect their rights? I’m in Utah where a majority (that’s changing) of the population is Mormon. The church is very VERY involved in state gov decisions. The more laws to limit people’s freedom is a plus in their mind. So for those of us here where we’re a minority, what steps can we take?

I imagine states like Utah would be the first to jump on the restriction bandwagon. If not passing it on a state level, going the opposite direction from states like CA.

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Hey thank you for your response and educating me more! I really appreciate it!