jabertsohn

They've only been together ~3 months, and people are congratulating him like it's his. She might well have known and just not told him. He needs to get the hell out of there, 3 months is nothing.

I dunno though:

1. It's a black dress.

2. Tight around the boobs, but really loose around the bump.

3. She is facing straight ahead, and the picture is angled down.

I'm not saying she was trying to hide it, but if I wanted to create a picture that hid it best, I couldn't do better than that.

I'm not saying she was trying to snag you as a father figure, but she might just have not known how to tell you yet. You have barely begun seeing each other, maybe she was waiting for it to get serious before she told you.

Either way, you need to seriously evaluate this situation before you commit to anything. You are young, you're in another country, you've only just met this girl, and you have to go home soon. Are you really going to be a long distance father, to someone else's kid, because of a short fling?

This kid already has a dad, and he's going to get home soon. This should be their crazy story.

At least don't sign anything that'll put you on the hook for support payments.

Realistically, you'll probably never be allowed back to Japan.

Sure they're empty now, but let's hope they don't stay that way for the next 18 years!

If I was in your situation I'd help her all I could too, as a friend. I'd take a step back from the relationship and let her and her family deal with her new baby. And you, you deal with the rest of your year in Oz. If she does decide to come to the UK later, you can rekindle the relationship then if it feels right.

Anyway, that's just my advice, my girlfriends have never unexpectedly given birth before, so I don't know.