Is it possible to change the way you masturbate/climax if you’ve been using the same technique your entire life? I am a female in my late 20s and the only way I am able to achieve orgasm is through a style of masturbation that is not conducive to partner sex (on my stomach, hands clenched and squeezing over entire vulval area with a lot of tension and pressure, but always on top of underwear as direct contact doesn’t create enough friction).
Before bringing partner sex into the picture, I’d like to just be able to get off on my own in a different manner. I’ve tried experimenting with different types of masturbation (both manually and with vibrators) and while other methods feel good, nothing has come close to making me cum. I’m worried that because I’ve been masturbating the same way ever since I was a kid my body will never be able to retrain itself to climax in any other way.
If you think it is possible, do I need to give up my original method of masturbation for good? I’ve gone about a month without climaxing and simultaneously trying other methods of masturbation, but always inevitably give in and return to my old method. Would love to hear your thoughts, thanks!!
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Is it possible to change the way you masturbate/climax if you’ve been using the same technique your entire life? I am a female in my late 20s and the only way I am able to achieve orgasm is through a style of masturbation that is not conducive to partner sex (on my stomach, hands clenched and squeezing over entire vulval area with a lot of tension and pressure, but always on top of underwear as direct contact doesn’t create enough friction).
Before bringing partner sex into the picture, I’d like to just be able to get off on my own in a different manner. I’ve tried experimenting with different types of masturbation (both manually and with vibrators) and while other methods feel good, nothing has come close to making me cum. I’m worried that because I’ve been masturbating the same way ever since I was a kid my body will never be able to retrain itself to climax in any other way.
If you think it is possible, do I need to give up my original method of masturbation for good? I’ve gone about a month without climaxing and simultaneously trying other methods of masturbation, but always inevitably give in and return to my old method. Would love to hear your thoughts, thanks!!
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