hyper_sloth

I'm going to go ahead and say that this would be a good idea... And you might want to reconsider letting your ex wife have 50/50 custody. If she is as damaged by her control issues as she seems to be (judging from what you've written), she will eventually do something to turn your daughters on you, hurt them in some way (maybe not physically) to keep them under control, or even turn them into huge control freaks themselves.

Having a mother figure is important, but it has to be the right one. Not having a mother around will do less harm than having a crazy (excuse wording) one.

Its good to see your building a case. I really hope it goes well.

Vengeance? No, I'm talking about justice and protection for your girls.

If you can prove that she has lied on the stand, I'm pretty sure she looses all credibility as a witness. I'm guessing your lawyer already told you this and that this is why you record everything.

Again, best of luck.

I posted on this on another comment. What your girls need is a good female role model. Sure, usually its the mother, but in this case she is far from a role model. Bad role models make huge impacts on people and having them be an influence on young kids all their life will cause great harm.

Your girls might not understand everything now, but the message you seem to be sending is, in my eyes, something along these lines:

"I can do anything I feel like and if I get called on it I just get a slap on the wrist."

Sure your ex might lose her career, but she keeps what she really wanted unless you take action. Mother figures can be replaced, but the damage made by a bad one will probably stay for life.

Yeah, but then you can't claim to be smarter or bringing out the truth.