herplede

I'm not OP and not a therapist, but considering she asked you not to look at her and not to say anything, maybe e-mailing her a link or texting her would be a good way, so she's not faced with having to respond.

Do you have more fun when you're blonde?

If you weren't musicians, what do you think you would be doing for a career?

(and once its online, it's there forever)

That's a very good point that I didn't think about. If there's even a small chance that someone else might check her phone or have access to her e-mail, I would absolutely NOT let her know about this thread that way. It has to be private, or his poor girlfriend is just going to suffer more.

Thank you very much! Offhand, do you know if he keeps them all, or does he sell any of his art?