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happenstanced243 karma

Thank you so much for this AMA.

I have been stalked for the last 10+ years, online - the stalker uses different names and accounts but, like you said in an above answer, I can spot them in their attempts at obfuscation from a mile away.

Unfortunately, due to their constant switching up of names, etc., I can't PROVE it's them. But I know.

They've recently escalated into veiled threats and I'm constantly living with fear.

I feel stuck - because while I know who they are, I have no tangible proof.

Do you have any suggestions as to what I should do?

happenstanced43 karma

Thank you for your advice. I have kept detailed records and will do as you've suggested.

It's because of people like you that law enforcement have begun to take these types of stalking cases seriously.

Back when my harassment began, there was no real precedent for how to handle these types of cases, so law enforcement basically told me I was out of luck.

It's reassuring to know there's hope for handling this, now.

happenstanced2 karma

Sometimes air leftover in the cavity will come out and the bodies will "exhale." It's a trip and pretty awkward when family is present at the removal (even if you warn them prior).

Once, I had a lady exhale throughout the entire embalming. She wouldn't stop making noise. It was a trip and hasn't happened since.

The way to "make sure they're really dead" is to tie a string or piece of dental floss around their fingertip. If it turns purple, there's still circulation = not dead. If it stays white, they're dead.

(I checked. She was really dead.)

happenstanced2 karma

Introfiant: the Superhero of Embalming Chemicals.

Hahah, Jesus Juice, Purple Jesus. That shit rocks.

happenstanced2 karma

Haha, your username. I love it.

That movie was excellent - especially in the beginning, it totally captured the smaller, more detail-oriented aspects of the career.