Basically my entire experience with American servers was like that. All the girls were overly fake. I had one good server on my whole trip and it was a dude at a reasonably upmarket Italian place.
I've worked in a bar before (I live in NZ) and it's not hard to make a real connection with customers. Everyone is interesting in some way or another; you just have to get good at figuring out what it is that makes them tick. Once you hone that skill you're good to go - and you see the best in people which leaves you generally more positive and open to them.
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Basically my entire experience with American servers was like that. All the girls were overly fake. I had one good server on my whole trip and it was a dude at a reasonably upmarket Italian place.
I've worked in a bar before (I live in NZ) and it's not hard to make a real connection with customers. Everyone is interesting in some way or another; you just have to get good at figuring out what it is that makes them tick. Once you hone that skill you're good to go - and you see the best in people which leaves you generally more positive and open to them.
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