gradeahonky

He’s honing is timing. The first time he brought it up was the day after a horrific event. A little to soon... So, learning his lesson, he tried waiting twelve years for the second time. Just a little too late, he’s working on it...

But also, he’s some shit lord trying to stir up trouble and promote his YouTube channel

I'm 5'9", the whole world is designed to my proportions! I can close my eyes and grab pants off the rack and they'll fit.

Beautiful animation like that was probably very expensive in the 90s.

I'm not OP and all I have is anecdotal evidence...

But I used to have a terrible relationship with sex. I didn't masturbate as a teen or young adult because it didn't feel good. The idea of sex was both terrifying and infuriating to me. I realize now that any time a woman would try to get intimate with me I would sabotage it immediately, though at the time I just thought I was an undesirable. I hated myself and felt inhuman. I just couldn't make sex feel natural, and the more I tried the weirder and less natural it (and I) got.

What helped me the most was discovering my pelvic floor. Turns out my muscles down there were either atrophied or chronically knotted up. Discovering these muscles, and learning how to loosen the knotted ones and strengthen the lazy ones, was one of the biggest discoveries of my life.

The way I walked started to change. My voice became more resonant. I could tell girls were looking at me differently (everybody was in fact). But most importantly, I felt different. I felt more human. I felt desire. I started to feel my personal bubble expand and incorporate people I found attractive, which had never happened before. I found touching myself and being touched by others felt infinitely better.

In other words, my pelvic floor was unnatural and so was my relationship with sex. The more I work on it, the more natural sex, flirting, romance, and all other forms of intimacy (which doesn't have to be sexual). Its a work in progress!

Your demeanor is connected to your muscles. Body language is a huge communication tool because your muscles match your mood, and as many people will tell you, you can also make your mood match your muscles. Confidence leads to relaxed shoulders, but relaxed shoulders also leads to confidence.

I don't know what mucked up my pelvic floor so severely, and sometimes I wonder if I have repressed something. But having tightness down there is a common symptom of trauma in the past.

Anyway, if it works for you you will know immediately. The first time I found my ischiocavernosus and released a knot I felt an intense relaxation I thought I could only find in my dreams.

There is no excuse to mutilate someone without their permission in non-emergencies. Someone can decide to get circumsized at any time, and the fact that my parents chose for me makes me angry. My penis rubs against my underwear and it hurts and I don't feel sex as much as non-mutilated people.

Look, I'm not trying to compare it to female circumcision, which I understand to be far worse. But it effects my life negatively and I don't understand how people who pretend to be educated or smart could make such a dumb decision for someone they love.