gr8fulgay

That's amazing. I grew up Baptist, in Texas, and what you describe is unimaginable in the church I knew. I don't have an answer to your specific question, but if someone had told me I could be OK with God it would have spared me and my family a lot of pain.

I knew I was different from when I was like 6 and came out age 13 to my parents, 15 to everybody. I did hook up with a woman one time in college, we were both drunk and, um, it kinda worked for a few minutes. And then we both started laughing. Otherwise, I'm all homo.

lol I do it all the time, my brother used to drag me to parties as a prop etc.

thanks to you and all the others who posted similar change of mind. please don't feel guilty, what matters is how you feel now and what you do now, not in the past.

to my knowledge, not openly gay men, just closeted dudes who are lying to their wives and the world.