glittercatlady

I’ve had 6 miscarriages and most people I know are aware of at least 2 of them. It’s just a little stab in the gut when people can complain about something that you may never get to experience. I know it’s not personal but I would love to have a baby in my belly kicking my bladder or keeping me up all night. I would do anything for that experience but people just take it for granted.

As someone who is in a similar boat with miscarriage I just want to know.. after all the heartbreak and disappointment, how did you find the courage to go through with an adoption that wasn’t a sure thing? I would have been afraid that bio family would get him back and I think that might literally kill me.

It’s inconsiderate to complain about it to someone who can’t have children. I’m not saying it’s deliberate, but I can’t help how much it hurts.