Hi John and Julie! Been a huge fan of your research for a while now. I read somewhere that your relationship also had signs of these "disasters' behaviours" before you learned to communicate better and implement the masters' way of resolving conflict. If you two, the experts on relationships, had these problems then we're not doomed? In other words, if the four horsemen are present in my relationship, but we're both aware of it, can we still succeed as a couple and work towards changing that?
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Hi John and Julie! Been a huge fan of your research for a while now. I read somewhere that your relationship also had signs of these "disasters' behaviours" before you learned to communicate better and implement the masters' way of resolving conflict. If you two, the experts on relationships, had these problems then we're not doomed? In other words, if the four horsemen are present in my relationship, but we're both aware of it, can we still succeed as a couple and work towards changing that?
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