filthy-carrot

My partner has not been interested in sex or kissing for over 6 months now. We went from having sex every day or two, to once a week, eventually once a month, and now not since 4 months I believe.

She just says she doesn't feel like she wants it at all. I worry it's attraction issues, however she's a workaholic and is often stressed from work.

I'll keep it short, we've talked about it many times, and she always says she doesn't want it, she doesn't feel like it, or is always tired. Regardless of when I say what about how i feel or want/need? Ofcourse I have never pressured or forced anything, and never will. but she just says the same thing and gets annoyed when I bring it up everytime now.

I very much love her and she loves me, and we've been together almost four years, but we need to get over this hurdle, could you advise anything for our case?

Edit: Were both in our mid 20s Thanks for reading if you made it all the way through!

This is an amazing perspective. I would like to think im relatively aware of those factors, such as leaving something untidy never helps and what not, but that really is gold.

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I will definitely be keeping everything you said in mind. I definitely consider myself a partner in the household when it comes to cleaning/chores and offering back massages which gets her to fall asleep very easily a couple times a week, when i myself are not exhausted.

Thank you nonetheless, brilliant comment

Hey there!

Dont mean to be weird, but when it comes to your period.. How does that work?

That's odd.. Glad everything is better now.

Have a nice day

This is just great advice, saved this comment, thanks so much