Hey there,
I'm in my mid thirties, female, no kids.
Lately I've been finding my friendships very one sided and disappointing. It seems like meeting with friends became so "serious". We either talk (a lot) about problems that need to be solved, some relationship drama or stress at work. I'm usually the one asking to do fun stuff like activities outside, play games, go to the cinema, but no ones really up for that anymore. Everyone is so absorbed with their jobs, always exhausted and there is always something to complain about. I have the impression it got worse since covid. I'm also very tired of always making plans which are cancelled the last minute and somehow feel like "giving up" on friendship. Do you know these feelings? Is it somehow my generation, is it age, is it me?
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Hey there, I'm in my mid thirties, female, no kids. Lately I've been finding my friendships very one sided and disappointing. It seems like meeting with friends became so "serious". We either talk (a lot) about problems that need to be solved, some relationship drama or stress at work. I'm usually the one asking to do fun stuff like activities outside, play games, go to the cinema, but no ones really up for that anymore. Everyone is so absorbed with their jobs, always exhausted and there is always something to complain about. I have the impression it got worse since covid. I'm also very tired of always making plans which are cancelled the last minute and somehow feel like "giving up" on friendship. Do you know these feelings? Is it somehow my generation, is it age, is it me?
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