fabricfreak

My BIL has Cerebral Palsy and epilepsy. He is almost 30 and lives at home still. Well all know he would be much happier if he moved out but he had never lived alone or been motivated to do much. He oftentimes hide behind his diagnosises, but also does not accept services offered for him through the state and county. He has a lot of pride and doesn't see himself as needing those services because he "isn't that bad". Do you have any suggestions on how to support him in moving towards independence?

Trust me that any response is helpful. He is just such an amazing guy I just wish he could see it too