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extragrandeur1 karma

I know direct game works for a lot of guys out there, and honesty first is definitely the way to go. But when almost all your direct game approach has been rejections, you gotta start looking elsewhere.

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hm maybe I'll study some of it and try it out as much as possible. I understand that more time should be spent on going out and talking to women as oppose to studying up routines. But I'm at the point where I know I'm confident and charming enough to have almost no problem opening/hooking sets at bars, kino, getting phone numbers, and sometimes kiss close (still gotta work on the pulls/logistics). The flake/rejection rate is still really high. I'm looking into instead of trying to see if she's attracted to me, I can proactively create intense attraction. For you guys, a lot of attraction building is social proof, charm, confidence, escalation, and (what I call) high status behaviors. But I feel that's just not enough for me to really get the girl. I'm still pretty young and taking this thing one step at a time. Thanks a million for answer my question dude. Looking forward to your book in July. :)

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Hi Ken. Huge fan of your book, you have my backing for sure, and I can't wait for your SF seminar. It's interesting to see the evolution from back when Mystery's Method reigns to now the new wave of honesty-first direct approach seduction philosophy introduced by Mark Manson and yourself, to name a few. My question is, how much merit do you see in Ross Jeffries pseudo hypnosis NLP techniques such as eliciting value, anchoring and the usage of trance words? Also I know you guys aren't big on routines but things like palm reading, cold reading, and silly kino games(e.g. thumb war) are golden. Never failed me before.