duckonrails

Were you the husband or the wife?

Hey man, I am not her, but as someone who lost virginity in the early 20-s it was about finding someone I could trust. In retrospect, maybe finding someone whose subsequent opinion didn't matter to me could have worked also. But for me, finding someone I could trust and someone that was accepting and understanding was key. That said, the person was not perfect at all, but the trust element was there.

Anyway hopefully she can provide some more guidance to you.

Lesser chance of prostate cancer.

In the course of my marriage (around 9 years) my libido started off very strong in the beginning years, then slowed down considerably (i guess as expected), but recently has become very strong again. Is there a biological explanation or could this be purely psychological (such as acting out defense or displacement)? I don't see a noticeable change on the part of my wife that I could attribute this to.

So to word the same thing somewhat differently, frequent masturbation is likely to reduce the risk of prostate cancer in middle-aged men.