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I think the ideal way is if there was an election process, with a minimum comment activity level to apply. At the beginning there is a registration process, where mods need to introduce themselves, what they'd like to see, and their comment/post history is bare for everyone to see. Then for a month after people can debate over who deserves it in a pinned post. Then users with x amount of post/comment activity in the sub can vote. Transparent & democratic.

do you have ovaries?

How did you know someone was high potential?

The advice is have an interesting enough life that you don't want to get into a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship because you are perfectly content with your life.

you werent born with a penis?