djbummy

I’m not OP but a major tip (that I actually picked up from this girl that I was seeing, she did it to me and I was caught so off guard but liked it that I stole it from her haha) is to ask if you can kiss them! You can usually tell or know when things are going well in a date and if y’all are into each other. If you don’t want to overstep simply ask! Most people will be caught off guard like me because every one is used to “just doing it” but they’re almost always receptive and for me personally it has worked 100% of the time (I don’t ask after EVERY date, just the ones I know are going well). I’ve been told it’s attractive/hot/unexpected but like I said, for the most part it works.

It helps if you ask at the right moment of course. When saying good bye, having a really nice laugh and getting intimately close, etc. just read the body language and gauge if you think they like you. If you get a no well there’s your answer and you won’t wonder “what if”. Also a no isn’t always a loss, sometimes they are interested but don’t want to rush things so at least you’ll know you didn’t overstep and you still have a chance.

Teach just got tenured

Have you ever tried psychedelics? Or any kind of drug? If so how would you describe your experience? I’ve read some psychedelic experiences of blind people but almost all of them were people who became blind in life so they had a concept of vision. It would be interesting hearing from someone who has never seen anything in their life.

Read my reply to the other guy for my personal tip on what I started doing. The fear of overstepping always screwed me up after dates but a simple “can I kiss you” at the right time can change everything.

Had spont. Pneumothorax at 15 freshman in HS. It definitely hurts and you can feel it. Hurt like hell when I laughed or moved around too much. The morphine most definitely helped though. Once they pulled out the tubes though that was a very uncomfortable feeling