crustycooz

First, you probably get this a lot, but your love of life despite the awful things you've been through is inspiring.

I have lupus and other assorted health issues - I had to go through chemotherapy and am on a slew of meds and deal with chronic pain every day. I know how hard it is to live with a disability, it can feel crushing sometimes. I empathize with your situation and your beautiful personality is all the more amazing.

Thank you for being you.

I replied to this particular comment because I wanted to share that I have found a life partner through a dating site (OKCupid). I wanted someone with the same qualities you've outlined here and in your other AMA. He has neurofibromatosis, an awful illness where tumors grow on nerves throughout his body. Being with someone else who has been through similar issues as me has been a blessing. A lot of people out there can't deal with a partner who needs care like we may, or can't really comprehend our experiences and pain... My partner is amazing. His outlook on life is an inspiration just like yours. And we both have health issues, luckily we are able to take care of each other when we need to.

I know others have said you'll find someone, but as a person who has suffered and is suffering and didn't want to be a burden on anyone, I want you to know that you WILL definitely find a person who doesn't see you as a burden at all and who treasures your beauty no matter what you're going through. You're a fucking amazing woman, and you're going to make someone very happy one day.

I hope my comments haven't been offensive or intrusive, I just wanted to give you hope from someone who's been there and gets it.

I wish you all the blessings in the world and I will keep you in my prayers.