I have a question, I'm a gay man who was sexually assaulted by an old man (I was 18 he was 55) and we were friends up to that point and had sex before, but when he wanted to one time I said no and he didn't take that for an answer. I didn't enjoy it but I ejectioned as well, now he is serving 50 years in state jail for what he did to me a several others and I feel conflicted and confused. I didn't want to have sex but he was also a friend, I know he would have done something like this to more people but he was very convincing that I enjoyed it and being further away from that moment it feels harder to figure it out. Is guilt in this situation normal? Should I feel guilty or rest assured that I did the right thing?
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I have a question, I'm a gay man who was sexually assaulted by an old man (I was 18 he was 55) and we were friends up to that point and had sex before, but when he wanted to one time I said no and he didn't take that for an answer. I didn't enjoy it but I ejectioned as well, now he is serving 50 years in state jail for what he did to me a several others and I feel conflicted and confused. I didn't want to have sex but he was also a friend, I know he would have done something like this to more people but he was very convincing that I enjoyed it and being further away from that moment it feels harder to figure it out. Is guilt in this situation normal? Should I feel guilty or rest assured that I did the right thing?
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