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As a woman, is it normal to masturbate over underwear? When I touch myself over the cloth, it's fine and the friction gets me off. Whenever I have tried putting my finger directly on my body it doesn't do anything for me.

You're right. Touching myself over underwear is how I accidentally discovered masturbation when I was a child, and I've been doing it that way ever since. I'll definitely try to normalize new things for myself. Thank you.

I'm sorry you've had to deal with that. Men have so much pressure put on them when it comes to sexual performance, and it's so unfair. I guess the only upside to being a 22 year old virgin (I unfortunately live in a country where premarital sex is very rare & taboo) is that all my sexual shortcomings are confined to my own bedroom. I'm glad you're trying to fix the "issue", but in the meantime, I hope you don't let your partners or anyone else make you feel bad about yourself.

I tried fingering myself 3 times and each time I felt absolutely nothing. Human bodies are fucking weird.