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I'll add my two cents here if you don't mind! I also feel like I grew up hearing so many negative jokes about how gross/smelly/poorly tasting vaginas are, which made me super self-conscious as well. As far as appearances, what really helped me was seeing the Wall of Vagina, where an artist made casts of dozens of real women's vaginas to show the world what they actually look like. It's fun browsing them and seeing some that look like yours, and lots that don't! It just goes to show that perfect vaginas don't exist.

And in terms of everything else, the way I see it is - If I have a partner who doesn't like my vagina for whatever reason, then they don't deserve to be a partner. And sucks to be that person, because they're going to find out very quickly in life that although we can shower normally and keep things fresh, no set of genitals on earth smells like perfume and tastes like candy, and if they're being immature about that then they're not mature enough for sex anyways!

That's the perfect answer!

I'd suggest starting here - https://www.thatsexquiz.com/ It's a quiz you and your partner can take that shows what you'd be willing to try, and only shows the results that you BOTH select, so no need to worry about feeling embarrassed! My boyfriend and I took this quiz and use the results as a sort of 'to do' list, and just work our way down it, trying things that we're both open to trying, and seeing what works and what doesn't

Hi! Thank you for hosting this AMA. I graduated from psychology recently and loved my Human Sexuality class with Professor Meredith Chivers the most of all my undergraduate courses.

My question is about female ejaculate - I saw on your Instagram the meme of "female ejaculate isn't urine, change my mind", and was hoping you could elaborate on the content of female ejaculate for me? As far as I have read online, and unfortunately not in academic journals, I understand that female ejaculate can be 'similar' in its composition to urine, with added PSA (?) from the Skene's gland. Is this accurate, and if not, could you please clarify?