alt30313

Nothing to add. A guy I know was in a similar situation. The girl was 17 had a fake scannable ID and a college facebook back when they didn't allow high school students (She was taking a college course as part a program her high school offered). He met her at a bar and slept with her. She told him she was underage the next day. Lucky for him she didn't try to ruin his life or brag about it.

And I'm glad you've been able to get your life back.

Edit: see my comment below if you need more details about the situation and age of consent laws.

I agree as long as they represented themselves to be 18 or 21. I think in these situations the burden of proof should be on the prosecutor or victim to prove you knew they weren't of age if consensual sex took place. In the second comment I posted about the incident I also addressed alcohol. Alcohol also could make these situations dicey if the 18-20 year old has had even a drop of alcohol.