allcommiesarebitches

I'm not OP, but I did a similar thing a while ago; I dealt with the customer service side of an amateur pornography "business" (it was really just me and someone I knew, made decent money for just messaging people on my phone).

Basically, when people buy that kind of stuff, they want personal contact. I'd play the role of the woman in the photos because she hated dealing with these dudes. I'd say 98% (literally, about 4 people out of 200 actually bought stuff on average) were just messaging to try and manipulate me into giving freebies. "Oh I'm dying in the hospital" "Oh I'll pay you after it's sent, not even half up front!" that kinda shit. Some of the ones who will buy want an hour+ of texting.

I burned out in a few months, due to the constant bullshit. Finding a legit customer was essentially looking for a needle in a hay stack. Maybe OP has better strategies than I do, but that was the hardest part for me. Filming the material was easy, took just a few minutes, either her solo or us having sex. The fetish stuff was a little harder, but still the videos were rarely more than a few minutes. The customers took hours to deal with and drained my soul.

Sometimes people would mail fetish stuff to her PO box which was always interesting. Lingerie, dildos, you name it. Can't complain about free stuff.

What is your ratio for people who hit you up, to people who actually pony up for deposits? I was involved with selling amateur pornography as a side thing for a few months, and for me it was like 100:1. Is it better with your own website?

It's like people see that shit and think they can get freebies by simply claiming they'll pay you eventually. Is that an issue for you?

As a 22 year old man, it's true. I still look at men in their 30s or older and think of them as adults, and people in my generational cohort I think of as kids, including myself.

It's weird. I wonder if I'll still feel like this in my 30s, 40s, and beyond.