adrianvedder1

I work in regular movie sets and every time a scene involves anything intimate, we clear the room and it’s all very respectful and etc but you always get a feeling of “that was awkard as hell”… so in my head porn always gets done by 4-5 people where everyone is like “ah fuck it! Who cares” but when it’s an actual crew… how does that go?? Like sound really goes “wait, can you moan softer? It’s peaking” or script is like “oh wait, you were kissing the other tit, and your hand was… deeper down there” IS IT LIKE THAAAAT? Cause that’s what I’m picturing haha

A therapist friend of mine has a working theory that for any kind of sex misalignment to happen, two things are required: 1. The genetic part (This “boy” has “girly” attitudes, for example) but mostly 2. A scarred relationship with a parent where the child feels neglected or not accepted.

My coleague says that her (very limited) findings have, so far support this theory 100%. Meaning that every single person struggling with sex identity she has attended has met both requirements.

But that only ammounts to, let’s say, at best 100 people, AND in a specific area of course. Also she’s not dedicated to that field, she just happens to encounter that kind of patient.

In your experience, does the theory holds any water?