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Hi! Thanks for all the insight on this topic. I'm transfemme-nb, pre-hrt and that's one of my worries, losing the ability to top. Have you ever looked into a hollow strap on? Do you think it could work? I find the motion of thrusting/grinding is very arousing but I don't really care whether or not I do it with flesh or fake flesh.

Thanks for the insight! I'm in this weird middle ground where I'm still accepting that I'm a transwoman (because what does a woman feel like? Isn't this something that happens to other people?) but growing up, being socialized and possessing this male body, understandably I still feel male urges (despite not really liking them) and my penis sometimes shouts "thrust! thrust!" and I'm like "no, while pleasureable...I don't really want to use you like that". I just think a sheath/strap on isn't like...my own flesh so it would almost be better.

Ya but what if her DNA is closer to that of a biogical woman, yet she was born with the body of a woman? Do chromosomes trump genitalia? Shouldn't she try to match what she feels inside?

Just because the doctor pulls a baby out and sees a penis (or lack of), they assume sex based on what they see. No one ever checks chromosomes!

I just don't think it's that cut and dry. It's way too easy to say 'very very rare', like just a quick google nets xxy at 2 in 1000 male births and xyy with 1 in 1000 male births. 1000 births is pretty low and sounds like it can be much more common than it is.

Like, I don't really know too much about DNA (and I don't think you really do either, as from your other posts). The cool thing (and very weird thing) to think about is that everything is human ascribed. Everything. We've made up words, language and ideas to organize and make sense of our world. We're a pretty cool species that way, but at it's simplest form, none of this really matters (because it technically doesn't exist).

If there was a message from up high (God), from someone outside our whole existence that said "hey, look humans, there's two sexes no if, ands or buts". Then I'd accept that. But there isn't because we're the ones bringing meaning to our world and meanings change.

Honestly, you just sound (and this isn't intended to be mean) like a quasi-bible thumper, like "man must marry woman because it is their duty to have kids", but in this case it's "man is a man because of dna and penis. Woman is a woman because of dna and vulva". Like, no. Just have an open mind because who really cares in the end, ya know?