WildeCat96

I see most questions are about female sexual response. I help care for a 12 year old boy that was raped by his father starting at age 4. Last summer his was raped again by a 16 year old neighbor.

He asked me two questions that I have a hard time answering for him. Why did it feel good if it was wrong? And why did it happen to him again?

I've tried to explain that it feeling good was just a physical response even though he was scared and hurt, but it doesn't seem enough. And I have no idea how to answer his second question.

It is. The father raped all 8 of his children. And performed genital mutilation on his daughters. 2 of them died from it. He was a truly evil person. This boy was not his biological son, so he got the worst treatment of them all. It seems impossible that he's alive. Its honestly the most tragic story I've ever heard.

Thank you. That actually makes a lot of sense.

He has told me much more than I think he has told his therapist. And he has also said he will never tell anyone everything that happened. I supposed years of abuse will make anyone feel that way.

I will definitely look into those resources.

That is a wonderful idea. Thank you so much. They all have multi million dollar trust funds set up, so it's not needed.