WhiteRau

supremely versatile and robust vehicle. surprisingly nimble snd fast off the start. i concurr. good choice.

there are just no words to encapsulate how stupid this statement is...in any language. O_o

thank you. while I have done personal therapy to great benefit, my attempts at couples therapy have been disastrous, to say the least. i've never heard of discernment counselling. i will look into it immediately. thank you very much.

disregarding an entire body of knowledge because you do not grasp the context of one specific piece is extremely disserving to yourself. it is basically dismissing the contents of a book because the jacket colour displeases you. rather than try to approach the one specific piece of knowledge from various perspectives to key to understand why it was posited as a good strategy, you took your inability to do so as a sign that the knowledge was faulty, not your mentation skills, and then post hoc ergo propter hoc the remainder of the knowledge pool must also be bad. this is ad hoc fallacy. and you, personally, suffer. this is stupidity. you can't dispense with all information because you can't grasp a small fragment of it. it does you great disservice and you miss out on the splendor or learning and expanding yourself, which, in turn, enriches us all.

my wife and i are constantly in opposition. our marriage is, to be honest, pretty much dead. while i do try to work with her, her staunch stubbornness and dislike of any male influence is making it impossible to move forward with the tools i have. is the cost of therapy to my already-beleagered children in such a situation worth the effort or is divorce-and-move on going to be easier on them over the same time frame? i appreciate this sounds like i am asking for a green light to pull the plug, but i am not. i am asking for a general view of the cost of divorce vs cost of therapy as it impacts the kids involved. i am exhausted and just want to do what's best for the kids because i can see they are breaking.