Vok250

The difference he is talking about is hesitation vs complaints. People hesitate. Guys and girls both do. Social stigmas make people second guess things they want. I get your concern, but in the real world his advice is blatantly obvious. It's about respecting comfort zones, but not being afraid to test them.

That's why you use usernames on places like Kickstarter. I'm surprised how much internet knowledge has changed. It used to be common knowledge to never use your real name as your username.

Backer here. I've been following you on reddit for well over a year and a half and your posts helped me get out of a tough spot in my life. I'm still below average with women, but I at least have self respect, hobbies, passions, friends, and a few close female friends now.

So my question is, how do you deal with your actions and beliefs being villanized? example

A lot of my life is based on the first few parts of Above the Game. It's been hard for me the past few weeks because I feel like a lot of these accusations are directed at me.