Look, as a man who has suffered from this in the past I’ll tell you what helped me. Disclaimer: this may not be the healthiest approach.
A friend and I were talking about this subject once, and he is a supremely confident guy, married with kids, awesome person. He said it’s all mental. 100%. It’s all in your brain. There’s no trick or shortcut. Next time you have sex, get in the right frame of mind as it starts to get hot and heavy. Realize that you’re about to put that work in. And then go out there and put that work in. Don’t be surprised by the fact that you’re getting laid. Don’t be overwhelmed by how good it feels. Do your job. And after 10 minutes or whatever, you’ll realize you’re crushing it. At that point you’re free. Get lost in how good it feels. Cum whenever you want. Your partner will be stoked that she got you off, and you will probably have just had the best sex of your life, because you know you got her off also
Couple notes:
-It’ll probably still happen from time to time no matter what, and it’s not a big deal. If you’ve made a habit of crushing it, that will probably be a nice/funny little ego boost to your partner
-EAT. THE. PUNANI. Make yourself an absolute aficionado of oral pleasure. It will pay dividends
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Look, as a man who has suffered from this in the past I’ll tell you what helped me. Disclaimer: this may not be the healthiest approach.
A friend and I were talking about this subject once, and he is a supremely confident guy, married with kids, awesome person. He said it’s all mental. 100%. It’s all in your brain. There’s no trick or shortcut. Next time you have sex, get in the right frame of mind as it starts to get hot and heavy. Realize that you’re about to put that work in. And then go out there and put that work in. Don’t be surprised by the fact that you’re getting laid. Don’t be overwhelmed by how good it feels. Do your job. And after 10 minutes or whatever, you’ll realize you’re crushing it. At that point you’re free. Get lost in how good it feels. Cum whenever you want. Your partner will be stoked that she got you off, and you will probably have just had the best sex of your life, because you know you got her off also
Couple notes: -It’ll probably still happen from time to time no matter what, and it’s not a big deal. If you’ve made a habit of crushing it, that will probably be a nice/funny little ego boost to your partner
-EAT. THE. PUNANI. Make yourself an absolute aficionado of oral pleasure. It will pay dividends
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