Hey! Karley love your show and blog. So I'm a male who was largely passed over in high school. no one wanted to date me and no one definitely wanted to fuck me. it hurt and I missed out on a lot, but I understand no one owes me sex. Now I'm in my mid-twenties and I'm still being overlooked by people. no matches on dating sites or apps. no one is walking up to me at bars. no one wants me to engage with them in any form of a sexual level. So many people my age are able to have casual flings and/or relationship, but I can't help but feel like I'm missing out. Yeah people say not having a relationship beats a having a bad one, but I've been having nothing for years. Most forums, sites, and podcast love to dump guys like me on sex workers, but i don't think that's the answer. Paying for sex isn't teaching me how to healthily pick up partners or what I need to know when it comes to flirting. It's teaching me the only way have any worth is to have money. and I know walking up to some woman on the street is only going to earn me a slap on the face. How can I express my wants and desires in an age where male sexuality is so repressed and largely ignored. How can I learn how to engage in this culture that's been excluding me before it even started?
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Hey! Karley love your show and blog. So I'm a male who was largely passed over in high school. no one wanted to date me and no one definitely wanted to fuck me. it hurt and I missed out on a lot, but I understand no one owes me sex. Now I'm in my mid-twenties and I'm still being overlooked by people. no matches on dating sites or apps. no one is walking up to me at bars. no one wants me to engage with them in any form of a sexual level. So many people my age are able to have casual flings and/or relationship, but I can't help but feel like I'm missing out. Yeah people say not having a relationship beats a having a bad one, but I've been having nothing for years. Most forums, sites, and podcast love to dump guys like me on sex workers, but i don't think that's the answer. Paying for sex isn't teaching me how to healthily pick up partners or what I need to know when it comes to flirting. It's teaching me the only way have any worth is to have money. and I know walking up to some woman on the street is only going to earn me a slap on the face. How can I express my wants and desires in an age where male sexuality is so repressed and largely ignored. How can I learn how to engage in this culture that's been excluding me before it even started?
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