ThighWoman

I have a lot of vivid dreams that I can often connect to my real life, often giving me clarity or raising questions on certain scenarios. I have one that I keep thinking back on and wonder if you have any thoughts about it you could share - what I can take from it or do with it.

In the dream my ex (who I had a traumatic breakup with, he ghosted me after 7 years together) shows up at a party I’m at and I overhear him tell all my friends that he knew our relationship was over when I gave him my sea urchin. And then a picture flashes of my hands a light green porcelain sculpture of a shell into his hands.

If you have any thoughts on that specifically I’d love to hear them. Generally I wonder if you have any thoughts on what people can do with their dreams - processing them or using information from them? I tend to either receive clarifying messages in dreams very late after events unfold or I get question raising dreams about current events that are confusing and later on seem to be almost predictive of what will happen, but i do not usually understand the connection until it’s too late for me to use anything I “learn”. An example is the month before my partner disappeared suddenly, I was consistently dreaming that he had moved out without me noticing. My deeper mind seems to have understood some distance he was displaying before my waking mind accepted it.

I was in an ER waiting area when a homeless man entered and sat down. He began calling out to people for money or conversation. A woman walked by wearing a Bluetooth device and he said “ahh, a cyborg.” I thought, “no…wait…hmm…”

Thank you, this is a good guide for me to look deeper. ☺️ I had not heard of dream therapy and am super interested to look into that too. I will be picking up a copy of Inner Work!