The_Mighty_T

hmmm,

I prefer to tie people who suffer with grace, men and women alike. I imagine Harry would take the torture elegantly, big green eyes stubbornly watering from time to time, shock of dark hair falling over his face in suspension. Harry would push himself, demand that his body find the edge with me. I don't think Ron would go as far, only because I don't think Ron would be as capable of exploring and sitting with suffering for a greater cause as Harry would be.

I prefer to say that I happily would, but I'm a little tied up at the moment.

I was bartending in a dungeon as a favour to a friend during a pre-party for a huge bondage show. One the riggers present asked the owner of the space if he could borrow the bartender, owner said yes. He asked me, I figured "eh, why not, he's pretty cute", and found myself in a rather unexpected inversion from a frogged leg (futomomo tsuri). We've been together 4 years now, and bondage has totally become my focus in life.

Bad tension.

Consistent even tension across your wraps makes the bondage safer, more sustainable, more attractive, and more durable in suspension. Unevenly tensioned wraps can result in one wrap taking the strain instead of two, cutting into the bottom more, focusing the load on the one spot rather than distributing it, and potentially raising the risk of nerve damage. It also from a bottoms perspective feels sloppy, and makes me wonder whether the person tying truly has the control and focus necessary to make me feel safe submitting to them.

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