Taymerica

Porn was always okay for me. It's more about girls I've dated or been in relationships with, talking about their perception of size and their experiences boldly. There are certain females out there that really like bragging about dicks they've been with, in a way that makes you feel insecure if you even mention that its awkward or too much info.

One partner really messed me up, she was very focused on penises, wondering about how big some people's were, telling me how big people's were that she'd been with, bragging about guys with big dicks as if, "small dick" energy got you no where. It really warped my mind, and made me feel worthless, and im not even small, I guess it was the feeling of being above average and being told I was below that made me even more frustrated.

Porn isn't that bad, it's more so when a partner you care about makes you feel like something is important, but unobtainable, that really fucks with your head.

I think you're supposed to roll it back before you put it on.. so it would only affect girth not length of the condom.

Foreskin rolls down, condom rolls over dick head and shaft. What are you talking about?

I was told I was on the spectrum and had ADHD most of my young life. I was put in school late with a lisp and skipped a grade to make up for it, so I've always felt off from most of my peers. My parents were kind of hippy anti vax, so they always thought I could get through it.

I have a lot of traits I call OCD ish, but I feel like those strengths/weaknesses now define me (somehow I learned to navigate the social world leaning on my competency of science). I have never been recently diagnosed or given medication for it, so I always feel like I'm kind of bandwaggoning.

How do you feel about the whole tokenization of autism in modern society, how it can be helpful for those on the fringe, but maybe manipulative by those that just feel different?

"The biggest benefit would be more opportunities for fun, company, emotional support, intimacy, and a sense of belonging."

That sounds like single people stuff, any personal benefits for someone in a relationship?... Cause I feel like if I did this alone it would hurt the relationship. Does it involve including your spouse?