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Sparkeys376 karma

Drs. John and Julie Gottman, thank you so much for doing this AMA! My girlfriend and I unknowingly bought each other a couple of your books for Valentine’s Day, and we’re looking forward to reading them!

One question that we have that hasn’t been covered in the literature we’ve read so far is how did you know you found “the one?” Does “the one” even exist, or is it more about attempting to build a relationship out of mutual respect and friendship?

Sparkeys27 karma

Thanks so much!