SilverTempt

Any good dating advice for professional women in their 30's? It seems difficult to meet the right people. Most guys who are into the idea of marriage seem to get married in their twenties. Many get divorced in their forties.

I actually tend to be what I call the "serial monogamist". I have had 3 long term relationships (2.5, 4.5, and most recently 5.5 years) but when it comes to pulling the trigger I find that I tend to be attracted to people who just can't or don't want to commit. I have a job were I work from home and travel a few times a month, but I go out with friends and take part in meetups to get out and meet new people. I live in Madison, WI which tends to lend itself to a large student and high professional population, but I still find it hard to meet someone I'm attracted to. I've tried online dating, but still seem to be finding people who are not interested in anything more then a "casual relationship".

I don't believe that I am someone who is too picky. I'm just looking for someone that I am (a) physically attracted to (b) is established in a career (c) is looking for a potential long term relationship.

I'm looking for a partner. I have my life together, a good career, and I would just like to find someone to share my life and adventures with.