SillyGirrl

This is seriously good advice. Especially for someone with PTSD. Dont do drugs unless youre in a mentally happy place.

Edit for everyone saying drugs are beneficial:

To be real, Ive had some great experiences while trying hallucinogens, most notably MDMA. And i can say that many were positive in regards to my depression, however it can work both ways. I was at an after party once when this guy on LSD lost. His. Shit. He started climbing the walls, crying and screaming over his sister who had died 3 months previous. The weight and reality hit him hard while he was tripping. The club owners tried to calm him down but ultimately had to call paramedics to sedate him and carry him out. So yea, I stand by my statement not to do drugs if your head isnt in a happy place. Im older now and have 2 children. Even if i had a sitter for thr night and in a safe place I wouldnt consider tripping again. Why you ask? Because I feel like the weight of parenthood would spin my head space out of control. I would call into question everything, and wonder if they were alright and then feel guilty for doing drugs.... just so many important things in my life, that i have no idea how I would react to while under the influence. Tripping is fun when uou are young and carefree, but once responsibilities start piling on, so many things could upset you or go wrong. But please believe I wouldnt change it for the world. Ive had my fun, my life is in a different and better place now.

It takes time. I left my abusive partner several years ago, and I cried the whole drive back to my hometown. I felt like a failure for letting my family fall apart. It took months of talking about it, letting it all out and figuring things out to start feeling better. Taking a step back and really evaluating the relationship in its entirety to really see how bad and shitty it was. You will start feeling better, and in fact relieved once you realize how different your life can now be. Also don't jump into a new relationship right away, and be weary of starting a new one with the same type of person. Took several abusive relationships before I realized a trend and got myself out of it. Good luck to you, and PM if you want to talk.

Which episode is this?

I agree... My SO and I didn't feel very sexual towards each other.. more just brought us so close to each other emotionally. We talked openly, aired grievances in a respectful way, and realized again how in love we were and thankful for each other and our relationship. As we were coming down... yea we got frisky, but it wasn't the highlight of our night, just an end of the night bonus. :)

Can you link it? No idea what you're referring to off the top of my head. :/