SassySasha

Nate! I've been following your journey since your last AMA! Two questions:

A) With marriage, a lot of people stay together for the kids. There's couples that deal with a lot of contempt, but stick it through until the kids graduate. Do you think it's more beneficial for kids to have one roof over their heads and have two parents that stay married OR is it more beneficial for the kids to see what a real relationship looks like? What's better in the long run? (I know it's a doozy and your answer is just based off your opinions!) I guess you could also phrase it as, what are the children like of these couples that are truly in love?

B) In one sentence... and JUST one sentence, what is love when it comes to couples?

Thanks!

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Love your answers! I agree with you wholeheartedly in both of the answers you gave! The other thing in terms of average and miserable relationships is choice on YOUR part. There comes a point in time, when the situation you find yourself in is no longer a matter of circumstance, but a matter of choice. Your choice. It is your choice to be sad, spiteful, unforgiving, distant, cold, vengeful etc. You have a choice in EVERYTHING you do. You are not a victim of your life. You only become one when you assign blame and make excuses. If you don't like the way your life is, then change it. You can't expect to change others... only yourself.