SaltyBabe

Who you are "as a man" has literally nothing to do with your penis or what kind of sex you have. Being a good man or person transcends those things. I understand you're saying this conflicts with your sexual identity or preference however there are many amazingly good, strong, masculine men who are gay or have things unusual about their genitals.

I wish you could see that who you are, as a man, was never about your penis or who you dated and how you got off. Being a "real man" is about so much more than your dick and I hate seeing that you've distilled the meaning if life to mean "I have to have a penis, I have to have kids." Because that is simply untrue.

You are valuable, you are worthy and deserve an awesome future, just as much if not more now that you've been through so much. Women can be pleased in more ways than just vaginal intercourse and you too could probably achieve some level of sexual satisfaction if you have an open mind. A wife and kids don't revolve around your penis and balls. Women can and will love a good man despite something like this and there are countless children in the world who would love to look into your eyes and call you Father, they don't care if you have a penis either by the way.

I'm sure it's been a horrible ordeal but please, realize, you are so much more than what you've lost. You can have a normal and happy life. Don't give up on that.

Edit: "you too could probably achieve some level of sexual satisfaction if you have an open mind." Can mean whatever he's comfortable with, so drop it with the sophomoric jokes or implications that he has to do a specific thing. Really guys, there is more out there than putting things up your ass anyway. Baby steps.

And yeah I did point out gay men can be good and masculine men, in a totally different paragraph, because OP seems to think otherwise and I disagree with that. Not because he should try being gay or something, just that even if he was gay its not a bad thing and he shouldn't feel bad if someone implies he's gay, since he's not and there is nothing wrong with it anyway.

I'm sure there are man Muslims who like many Christians only listen to the convenient rules.

Jesus Christ, why would anyone agree to work with such complete morons?? You guys deserved to be caught.

Seems she's mentally hung up on sex in general... Sounds like she needs some serious professional help for the mental side of this, not just pt.

Not specifically breast cancer related but surgically scar related. I have a lot of scars, one from a clamshell incision where they were supposed to go under the breast but went through my breast instead... Why is it surgeons seem to give zero fucks about what we patients have to live with afterward? All they had to do was lift the breast more to not cut through it but apparently that was too much effort? I don't get it. Do you have any insight as to why anyone who is not a plastic surgeon seems intent on maiming you via incisions?