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God... I can't even imagine. And such a young little guy. I'm so sorry, OP.

Hey, there are a lot of us here who sympathize, even of we don't understand. I'm so sorry that this happened. Poor baby, I can't understand a woman doing that to her own child.

Very true. It took me, my husband and my ex mother in law (yeah, she helped pay for my lawyer) to collect enough money for me to finally get custody of my son from his meth addicted father. It's one of the most difficult things I've ever been through. It's not just so easy (even for women like me) to get custody, no matter how shitty the situation is. It's all about money.

Just adding a woman's point of view here... It's all about money. It took my income, my husband's, and my ex mother in law (yes, she helped pay for my lawyer) to finally win custody of my son from his meth addicted father. It took about a year, plus additional court fees, even after he'd been arrested for outstanding warrants.

The system is slow, money talks, and... His son was an infant...

I just don't think these are the right things to be saying to OP right now. Forgiveness comes later. This man is grieving the loss of his infant. A needless death that happened at her hand. Allow him to grieve.