Hey, thanks for doing this. My SO (41m) and I (40f) want children. We’ve had 5 miscarriages in the last 3 years.
I‘m trying to find a healthy balance between doing everything necessary that might result in me falling pregnant (pushing for certain tests, getting healthier, finding the reasons why it‘s not happening) and not stressing about it because stress is a cause.
How does one find that balance? I also don‘t want us to lose our joy in the bedroom but I do need him to step up and do the deed on the fertile days even if he‘s tired and stressed from work.
At times I worry I‘m not dedicated enough and then I think I should be more relaxed so that it‘ll happen. Either way I really want us to maintain our happy relationship.
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Hey, thanks for doing this. My SO (41m) and I (40f) want children. We’ve had 5 miscarriages in the last 3 years.
I‘m trying to find a healthy balance between doing everything necessary that might result in me falling pregnant (pushing for certain tests, getting healthier, finding the reasons why it‘s not happening) and not stressing about it because stress is a cause.
How does one find that balance? I also don‘t want us to lose our joy in the bedroom but I do need him to step up and do the deed on the fertile days even if he‘s tired and stressed from work.
At times I worry I‘m not dedicated enough and then I think I should be more relaxed so that it‘ll happen. Either way I really want us to maintain our happy relationship.
Any advice?
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