Also, maybe stop considering it "premature" and see how quickly you can get hard again. I am not a therapist but my marriage was plagued by bad sex. He would try to hang on to his 1st hard (which wasn't very long) and then fall asleep right after.
What I've learned from a new partner who is a repeater is my best orgasms come from his 3rd or 4th go. Now he isn't nearly as hard, sometimes barely, but because we are fluid bonded the lubrication left behind creates an entirely different experience. Usually by this point I am on top and his member is primarily used as a clitoral stimulas. His first orgasm is my warm-up and I love riding that wave with him. My last and most potent may not do much for him but he loves riding that wave with me.
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Also, maybe stop considering it "premature" and see how quickly you can get hard again. I am not a therapist but my marriage was plagued by bad sex. He would try to hang on to his 1st hard (which wasn't very long) and then fall asleep right after.
What I've learned from a new partner who is a repeater is my best orgasms come from his 3rd or 4th go. Now he isn't nearly as hard, sometimes barely, but because we are fluid bonded the lubrication left behind creates an entirely different experience. Usually by this point I am on top and his member is primarily used as a clitoral stimulas. His first orgasm is my warm-up and I love riding that wave with him. My last and most potent may not do much for him but he loves riding that wave with me.
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