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What steps can I take to having better orgasms? I think back to 15 years ago and the thrill is really lacking.

Sure. I'm a cis man, hetero, 32. I'm a bit of a sadist but I'm pretty vanilla as far as kinks go. It's more about the physiological side that I'm curious about

Edit: butt stuff apparently