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Return and find your soul mate.

Even in an AMA, Warlizard can't escape the curse of his username.

I totally agree with all of these, but I think there is an unintended detriment to making it so easy to date so many people, and it's that you don't value any one option appropriately. I've used OkCupid for 3+ years and only got my first girlfriend off it last week.

It's not OkCupid's fault, but every time I would date a great girl, I had this uncontrollable urge just to see what else was out there, one last time, before I commit to her. Obviously this didn't help out the relationships with those other girls.

It's almost like a gambling addiction. I'd have to just check once more, before I call it in. I eventually realized that I just have to deactivate my profile.

Because my gut was reserving judgement until I explored all of the options, but the options are endless. I just linked to this in another comment, but here's a study about how more options doesn't necessarily mean greater satisfaction.

Can you add an A-List search feature that only shows the girls that are definitely willing to go out with me?