NiteInShiningTinfoil

Why is it that when I ask my wife "wanna do it?" She tells me that is a turn off but every time I try doing anything to try to get things going she immediately tells me she knows what I am trying to do, well no shit, oh and surprise sex is a no go she gets mad real quick.

Thanks I guess, we have a strong relationship and we talk about these things a lot.

Thanks for all the advice everyone.