Nerdinlaw

Any tips for females having issues orgasming with a partner? While I am alone I have zero problems, however, I do have to imagine sexual scenarios in order to get there. Whenever I'm with a partner, I don't care how long he provides oral or manual stimulation, it's a rarity for me to orgasm, and completely frustrating for both of us. I think part of the the problem is that I can't use my mind as well when I am with a partner as I do when I'm alone. The only time I've found I've been able to easily orgasm with a partner is during anal (with Astroglide's silicone lube!) and he is manually stimulating my clit. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Thanks for replying! And yes its definitely that I feel I can't fantasize when I'm with a partner. I will try your suggestions and read the transcript. Thanks again!