Mshellsaw

I am stage 4 inflammatory BC. We had 3 months of NED following treatment for stage 3 in 2020/21, and then boom - in skin, lungs and multiple bones. This is the thing I feel like I am fighting for at the moment. I cannot go for the remainder of my life with people being so focused on the cancer aspect of my life. I just want people to realise this is now normal life for us (I am on a 21 day cycle with chemo on day 1 and 8, indefinitely and also had a rads for the mets in my spine). How did you get the people around you to just behave normally?

We have just started on that now, as I just cannot deal with the constant how are you questions and sad faces!