MinorSonsofMary

You are welcome. Thank you for your response.

I guess I wasn't asking about how you figure out coming across as sexy to OTHERS, but how do you go about feeling sexy YOURSELF without visual cues...because you should ;)

Thanks again!

Firstly, thank you for doing this! It is brave and inspiring: allowing yourself to be vulnerable, showing an example of an older adult willing to engage and grow, and sharing what life is like as a person with different abilities. Also, thanks to your friend for obviously being super chill.

As to my question, men are stereotypically seen as highly visual creatures. We are typically better with visual-spacial memory; we are on average more focused on our visual sense.

As a sexual human person, for me, feeling sexy is significantly connected to what I see with my eyes and what I see in my mind with my minds eye (which is obviously connected to images and values I have catalogued with my eyes over a lifetime).

Presuming you identify as a sexual person, what makes you feel sexy?

How do you go about feeling sexy?

Are you still influence by the parameters of aesthetic value created by a predominantly sighted society?