MessyJessie444

I often describe it as old gum stuck under a chair at school - you run your hand along it and it feels hard, odd, and like it doesn't belong. It is also often non-tender, immobile, and irregular as well (but not always). Bottom line: if you feel something, get it checked

I get what you're saying, but I do not think your club is analogous to Target... Sex is at the forefront of what you're selling. I actually think that /u/badraspberry is asking a very reasonable question given your line of business

I was 10 when my Mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and went through the same treatment as you (this was 25 years ago, she's alive and healthy now), and she says the same thing. But I was old enough to remember, and I honestly can say I cannot think of a single time where I thought "Gahd, I wish she were a better Mom right now!" I remember spending time with my Dad and brother without her and being sad (and scared thinking "this is how it could be someday"), but I never once thought she wasn't a good Mom or wished she were doing more. And I was a self-centered annoying pre-teen at the time, too :) Go easy on yourself and focus on your healing

Yeah, sounds like high school... I have really bad eczema and got called "crusty" throughout high school.